Showing posts with label fear. Show all posts
Showing posts with label fear. Show all posts

Thursday, 7 July 2016

Love Is What We Were Born With

Saturday, 7 May 2016

Sadiq Khan - Full mayoral acceptance speech





This is a time for positive change in London... we have 'chosen hope over fear'. Well done fellow Londoners...Lets hope the rest of World will follow our example. Congratulations Sadiq Khan. We are with you. #YesWeKhan

Wednesday, 16 March 2016

Speak The Words of Your Dreams

Saturday, 30 January 2016

Don't Fear Failure

“There is only one thing that makes a dream impossible to achieve: the fear of failure.” 


Paulo Coelho, The Alchemist




Wednesday, 22 July 2015

Will Smith's Top 10 Rules For Success





Will Smith - One of the most successful actors, producers, rappers and songwriters today shares his top ten rules for success.



1. Don't listen to the #LittleMan
2. Where you are isn't where you're going to be
3. Make a choice
4. Have a purpose 
5. Be great
6. Commit 
7. Don't be outworked 
8. Work on your skills
9. Let fear motivate you 

10. Be amazing at what you do








Saturday, 13 June 2015

Perseverance and Persistence for a Success

We all strive to achieve success in our life either in a personal or a professional venture. Everybody embarks on this journey with high hope and energy. But we have to prepare sufficiently for this venture because the possibility of failing or disappointment will be following us till we reach our destination. The proper tools for success will keep us in the game till we reach our goal.
We all embark upon a new venture, a new business, a journey with a hope and dream to win success. Every one of us wants to achieve our goal and reach our destination with a sense of satisfaction. This dream venture is vital for our ego, and the success is essential for our mind, spirit and soul. All new endeavors carry a possibility of failure or discouragement along the path to our destination for some unknown circumstances. But We can learn the skill required to gain success as we reach towards our goal.


Perseverance and Persistence:
We have given many thoughts, invested our energy and after mustering up all the courage started our journey. As we hope to achieve a success in our venture, Persistent hard work and perseverance to reach, our goal will be ongoing. Everyone will strive to solve the difficulties and find the solutions to our problems. We know the undertaking of this task won't be easy.The competition will be furious, and a task of achieving the success will be daunting. Experts with the skills for similar activities, success, will be easy to accomplish. The amateurs like us will have to work harder to reach the same conclusion.


To stay the course is our motto and Success is our goal.
Clouds of Discouragement:
After all these efforts, firm determination, and unrelenting labor, what if the goal to achieve that success keep evading us? What if the clouds of the disappointment and fear of a failure start to take hold?
How to deal with this fear?
We have determined at the beginning of the journey that we shouldn't accept the defeat; we shouldn't give up. We will stand tall and firm against the failure. Because it will be easy to quit if we fail. But the pain of leaving the task incomplete be unbearable.The reason is we may feel relieved if we quit, the stigma of failure will stay with us for the rest of our lives. It will be hard to dream again. Think, The triumph and a Defeat are like a day and night!
To accept the defeat means we lose! Though we started knowing that the path to success will be hard. But it was the journey we embarked upon to achieve success for our dream venture. As we walk accepting the defeat, it will create a phobia in our mind.The fear of failure will haunt us. Maybe it will scare us to dream again.
Listen what these Great leaders are telling us:
"Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts."
Winston S. Churchill

Can we imagine what the world would have been today if Thomas Alva Edison had accepted the defeat and quit his research to invent an electric bulb after first or second or 1000th or 5000th failures?! The world would have been in the dark without that Electric bulb today. But for the sake of humanity and his firm desire, he stood firm against the mounting failures. Was unwilling to accept the defeat, kept doing what he determined to do and at last he reached his goal. He invented that electric Bulb. One Man's Courage and Perseverance dispersed the clouds of darkness and brought the brightness to the world for ever and ever!!
For his thousands of failed attempts, this is what he said:
"I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work."
Thomas A. Edison


"Just because you fail once, doesn't mean you're gonna fail at everything. Keep trying, hold on, and always, always, always believe in yourself, because if you don't, then who will, sweetie? So keep your head high, keep your chin up, and most importantly, keep smiling, because life's a beautiful thing, and there's so much to smile about."
Marilyn Monroe
So to accept the defeat is to give up our freedom to Dream. The day we all stop dreaming is the day we are as good as dead.
We pick up from where we stalled, revamp our strategy and use the experience we gained from our failure and persevere with all our heart till we succeed.
"Discouragement does not mean we are defeated! It is when we accept the defeat, the chance of victory fades."
Respectfully,
Deepak Mehta M.D.
My name is Deepak S Mehta M.D. I am a retired family physician. Ezine has given me lots of encouragement. It has provided me useful suggestion to improve myself. I want to keep writing inspirational, Motivational and Positive Attitude blog posts from my life experiences that hopefully help my visitors to my site. I have just started writing the blog post. I know it needs lots of improvement as far as writing style, and subject matter is a concern. I am working hard at it.I am reading and writing as much as i can to better myself.
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Wednesday, 3 June 2015

Will Smith Secrets to Success - Amazing Motivational Speeches





 'I can create anything I want to create'

'Those who think they can and those that think they can't are usually right' - Confucious.

'Just decide where you're gonna be, who you're gonna be and the universe will get out of your way.'

'You can't be scared to die for the truth, the truth is the only constant.'

'The only thing to fear is fear itself.' - Franklin Roosevelt.

Will Smith has some great words of wisdom to share! Enjoy!

Monday, 25 May 2015

Michael Jordan 's Wisdom (Rare Interviews)





Michael Jordan worked hard, practised hard from early in life to become successful and is a great example of determination.

'The only thing to fear is fear itself.'

'The only thing that can stop you is yourself.'

We all need to learn how to be the best that we can be.







Saturday, 16 May 2015

The Mind Is Dumb to the Future: Part 2

Show a Little Disrespect
Re-interpret your experience. Re-name Fear and Panic as Opportunity for Growth. Fear and Panic are physical. Think of your physical self at the moment you become fearful and start to panic. Fear and panic make you hunch over and cower in their presence. Try this: Sit or stand straight, pull back your shoulders, raise your chin and be your full physical self. This opens your chest and lets the Fear and Panic out. Just tell it to go away so Opportunity for Growth can enter. It can be as simple as opening a door. As simple or as difficult, it is up to you.
Fear and Panic=Opportunity. The feeling of fear and panic is itself an opportunity. An opportunity to take charge and back-talk your brain. Remember your brain is only aware of the past. Only you can see the possibilities of the future.

Re-interpret Tension as The Urge Toward Progress. Tension=Progress. Fear, panic and tension are your guideposts to opportunity and progress if you let them be, if you tell them to be, if you re-interpret them to be.
The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.
Sometimes even a single step is enough. Call tension, the gnawing in your stomach, the flush of heat you might feel, An Urge Toward Progress. Go toward it not away from it. When you fear that Opportunity physically stand and take a step forward. You will feel the tension begin to turn into something else, into progress. Re-interpret Tension as The Urge Toward Progress.
Fear and Panic=Opportunity. The feeling of fear and panic is itself an opportunity. An opportunity to take charge and back-talk your brain. Remember your brain is only aware of the past. Only you can see the possibilities of the future.
Tension=Progress. Fear, panic and tension are your guideposts to opportunity and progress if you let them be, if you tell them to be, if you re-interpret them to be.
Back-Talk. So instead of Fear and Panic you have Opportunity for Growth and instead of Tension you have An Urge Toward Progress. Now the brain will talk to you in this new language-if you tell it to. It's your brain, take charge of it. Talk back when you don't agree, and, you shouldn't agree when it is misleading you, which is more often than not. Show a little disrespect when it's telling you, no, when it should be telling you, yes.
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Friday, 15 May 2015

The Mind Is Dumb to the Future: Part 1

Shell of Self-Preservation
One of the challenges of life is to understand that you were born without limitations. A pulsating blob of possibilities. The conditioning of the mind from childhood is designed to keep you from killing or harming yourself. It is this very safety mechanism that builds and maintains a shell of self-preservation and keeps your life in a pattern of prediction based on the past, but the mind is not the present you or future you. The mind is a former self that knows nothing of the future and is always responding to stimuli that aren't present now but were present at one time in the past. The mind is dumb to the future.

However, its pattern of prediction is of great value. If you are still alive and reading this then it has worked so far, right? Yes, in a way. It has kept you from stepping in front of trucks, jumping off bridges, going down dark alleys at night in strange and unfamiliar places. Unfortunately it has also kept you from saying hello to someone because they might reject you, from applying for a job that might be at the edge of your skill set, caused you to give up before even trying something new, made you feel it isn't worth it because you don't stand a chance. Since the brain is unable to accurately predict the future it responds to new experiences with its knowledge of the past. But the past is not the future. Fear and Panic are not always the appropriate response. You can't stop the stream of consciousness but you can learn to ignore or interrupt it when it is not being helpful.
Some people call it the brain, some call it the mind, the id, the superego, ego. What ever you call it, it's you first, then it. If your name is George for example call it 'Little George', unless that's already the name of some other body part, then name it something else. Seriously, give it a name you can relate to. A name without power. How can you control something as powerful as the id, superego, ego, mind, brain? But be sure it's a name you can be friends with. A name of something you might be in charge of, like the name of a pet. A pet can be allowed to be itself much of the time but some of the time it needs your control. It needs your control in order to be happy, in order to know what you want, in order to not be in a state of fear, panic and tension. It needs you help and guidance. Have you got the idea? Whatever you call it, it belongs to you, it is your subject, under your rule.

Joseph Valentinetti is an author of novels: fiction and fiction based on fact. He writes articles on a variety of subjects, from impressions of travel spots to speculating about the name of the moon, but his focus is on his writing and author interviews. Get better acquainted at. http://www.valentinetti.com/viewre-views/ Join his site, pick up his feed and become part of the dialog. Read A Book.
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